Sorry that I have not been keeping up with this blog..... I have been without a computer and just got access to one.... The kids are enjoying their summer. Update on the X: last week the sister in law to the X asked to have the kids for a few days, so i agreed figuring that the kids would spend sometime with their dad because he has been staying at the house where the kids was going to be, well they were there for 2 and 1/2 days and the kids seen their dad once long enough for him to say he loved them and then he left with his g/f and they never seen him again.. isn't that a bunch of shit!!!!!! We have been at my b/f's parents for the last week because his mom had eye surgery and his dad was suppose to have back surgey last thurs, but it was cancelled because he hurt his foot and couldn't walk, so now he is having it today and neither of them can drive so we have been here helping out.... the kids have been swimming in their pond and enjoying themselves... Well that is about as exciting as it gets in my life...LOL See ya in my posts when i can get online.....